A Californian living in Sweden

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The Winter Road Trip Begins

I love a good family road trip – the packed car, the audio books, the long conversations, the music, the wide open road, the avalanche of backseat snacks, the coffee stops and obligatory midnight McDonald’s sundaes.

Our family has had some great American road trips. Once we pulled an all-nighter to drive from California to Oklahoma, arriving at my parents’ house just in time for Easter morning. Then there was the spontaneous weekend trip to Utah that took us through Vegas, the Hover Dam and to the unexpected beauty of Zion National Park.

One summer we drove to Seattle, stopping near Shasta, California at a motel consisting entirely of train cars, a dream for our little boy who loved and still loves trains. Then a few summers later we left the safety of American highways and ventured into the rough, wild deserts and coastal towns of Baja California on a trip to Cabo San Lucas. It was that first international family trip that opened our hearts to the wild adventure of exploring Mexico and the rest of the world.

So when we left Malmö, headed south towards the snowy Alps and the prospect of a few days skiing, I was looking forward to the road trip as much as the destination. And I was not disappointed.

When leaving Sweden and heading to Germany, unless you are in an airplane, the first thing you have to do is either cross a couple of expensive bridges into Denmark and then Germany, or take a ferry. As it turns out, the ferry from Malmö to Lübeck, Germany is significantly cheaper than the sum of European gas prices and exorbitant bridge tolls.

And so we started our road trip by driving our Swedish car onto a ferry.

Drive aboard the ferry

Winter wind makes this cruise an indoor affair save a few quick obligatory photos for mom’s blog.

Goodbye, Malmö, for now.

The ferry, which was mostly occupied by truck drivers and a handful of families leaving Sweden for the “sport’s break,” an annual February week-long school holiday universally seen as a great week for skiing; contained a cafeteria, bar and lounge with children’s toys and a TV, a very small swimming pool, and oddly enough, a very Swedish sauna.

It is a bit unnerving to walk into a public restroom, open the cedar-lined door in the back of the restroom area, and see a completely naked woman stretched out on the sauna step, “Hej, hej.” I shut the door too quickly, forgetting my polite, “hej, hej,” in return. To be fair, we were still in Swedish waters.

Sightseeing in Hamburg, Germany

We spent our first night in Lübeck, and our first day exploring that historic port city and then, further down the road, Hamburg. Both places were fascinating, brimming with untold stories and historical connections; but as the nature of road trips are brief breaks with more miles to travel before resting, we moved on too quickly, leaving most of these interesting cities untouched.

Welcome to our castle.

Our second night was in Eisenach, city of Martin Luther fame; and we ate our first proper German meal in a German restaurant and spent the next day hiking up to the Castle Wartburg to explore all of the history there.

Kip examines the door of Luther’s study where the great Reformer translated the New Testament into German.

Life inside the castle walls looks like Disneyland.

Castle doves (photo credit River Haynes)

In 1817 German students gathered here in what become the beginnings of German unification.

 

That night we made it as far as the Bavarian alps, quite randomly staying in a delightful family-run bed and breakfast in Obermmergau, a village dominated by its nearly 400-year-long tradition of Passion play performances. The host proudly displayed generational pictures of her family costumed in Biblical garb, including pictures of her son as Jesus, her grandchild as baby Jesus and her husband both as an old man in recent color and a child in black and white.

A neighborhood of family run hotels in Obermmergau, Germany

Our host’s hospitality was beyond charming, and to add to the delight she told us that our breakfast cheese came from a local monastery that also made beer. So of course, we had to go there too. The little village monastery turned out to be the famous Ettal Abbey, a Benedictine monastery established in the 14th century.

Ettal Abbey

Frescoes under the church dome

Wall plaque cites Bonhoeffer’s time at Ettal

As a little historical note for my fellow Dietrich Bonhoeffer devotees, the German pastor spent time here in the winter of 1940-41 where he worked on his book Ethics. Several members of the Ettal community were also involved in the conspiracy against Hitler.

 

Up next, skiing in Austria…

 

 

Random Saturday Road Trip through Skåne

Mid afternoon light on the Eastern shore in November.

This morning we woke up late, sleeping like teenagers on a Saturday morning. The sun woke me up, breaking through the cloud cover for the first time in days, shining through the heavy curtains.

“Wake up! The sun is shining!”

It was 10 a.m. and with the curtains thrown back the light poured, I mean, poured, into the bedroom like warm liquid joy.

Within an hour we were talking about getting in the car and getting out, seeing a little bit more of Skåne County. Coffee and showers and cat chores later, we were on the road, just as the clouds were beginning to reconvene. We headed North and East anyway, toward the Baltic Sea.

With a car, or a train, it is possible to escape the city in just a few minutes. Malmö stops abruptly and expansive farm fields takes its place. Modern wind turbines dot the fields, alongside the stout remnants of traditional windmills that once dominated the windy landscape. And when the farmland stops, thick Swedish woods gather around lakes and cabins. Then the woods gives way to orderly little small towns with modern cottages and red tiled roofs and Volvos parked out front, and then the whole pattern repeats itself.

River picked the music, his 90s Spotify playlist, and everything out the window began to look familiar, like little bits of Wisconsin, West Virginia or Pennsylvania, the places I spent time in the 90s.

We saw several apple stands, and I lamented that we had not brought cash, until we passed a self-serve, Swish payment apple stand. We turned around and bought a bag. That would not have happened in California!

This requires a moment of recognition for my US readers. In Sweden, an almost cashless society, there is an electronic money exchange system that works with smart phones. You just open an app, type in a phone number and money amount, and your payment is made. It is as fast as swiping your card and signing a receipt. And the beauty of this apple stand experience is that it was also self-serve. The farmer, based on traditional Swedish culture values and modern technology, set his bags of apples in front of his apple orchards with a Swish payment sign. In a small way it represents the best of Swedish culture – cutting-edge technology, local-grown produce, self-service and an expectation of honesty. Amazing!

We drove until we found a national park along the sea. We walked to the water, watched a family in winter coats and hats running along the sand, two little girls walking out in the waves in their snow boots, laughing when the waves chased them back into the shore. It looked so much like kids in Malibu in winter, wanting to be in the waves that are too cold to swim in.

When the sun went down, around 4, we began heading back home, promising ourselves to do it again. It’s good to get out.

 

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